I’ve just been struck by a moment of clarity and in the hopes of not letting it get too far way from me, a few thoughts on gratitude before I subject my IT band to the foam roller.
Many friends on Facebook are participating in their own versions of a 30 Days of Gratitude Project, which seems mostly inspired by everyone’s favorite holiday, Thanksgiving. (Because, it is the BEST holiday, do not argue, it’s science. Also, my green chile cornbread stuffing will make your heart skip a beat.) From cappuccinos to courage, I am enjoying their daily posts of simple and complex expressions of gratitude, the quotes, a personal triumph, a scene of quiet or outrageous beauty captured in a photo.
This is also the time of the year when reflection is in style and I am on trend. I’m looking back over the year, giving it some structure, finding the themes, connecting the struggles and the wins, deciding what to keep working on, what to let go of moving forward, all in service of being both softer AND stronger. 2013 has not been my favorite year, but it has not been my worst, so very far from it in fact.
The difference? C’mon, you know what I am going to say.
It struck me tonight as I am busy with work and injury recovery, finally achieving some goals that have taken longer than I thought, that so many people have said Yes to me this year, even when I got roughed up for so many months by a gang of strong-armed No’s.
Right off the top of my head, here are a handful, ones that made the difference between insecurity and confidence, loneliness and love, giggles and a full-out jag.
Yes, I will get you that phone number.
Yes, I will take care of your dog.
Yes, I will give you a micro-loan.
Yes, I will make that introduction.
Yes, I will be tender when you’re anxious.
Yes, I will share your post.
Yes, I will take you to dinner.
Yes, I will give you the discount.
Yes, I will sign the contract.
Yes, I will come over for a slumber party.
Yes, I will stay on the phone with you laughing for an hour.
Yes, I will forgive you.
Oh friends and family, thank you for taking such good care of me, this year and all years, and may I do the same for you when you need me. Here’s to more gratitude, more Yes’s, and a belly full of green chile cornbread stuffing.